978 Main Road (Route 25)
Aquebogue, NY 11931
Tel: 631.722.3200

For the Holidays



View Photo #1 - Ceremony
View Photo #2 - Wedding reception room
View Photo #3 - Gate to garden
View Photo #4 - Event space
View Photo #5 - Lounge Area
View Photo #6 - Lounge Area
View Photo #7 - Evening reception
View Photo #8 - Outdoor dining
View Photo #9 - Bride and groom holding hands in vineyard
View Photo #10 - Seating area
View Photo #11 - Sparkling Celebration
View Photo #12 - Outdoor ceremony
View Photo #13 - Ceremony
View Photo #14 - Champagne pouring
View Photo #15 - Bride and groom holding hands through vineyard
View Photo #16 - Wedding ceremony
View Photo #17 - Dining table
View Photo #18 - Bride and groom kissing by garden
View Photo #19 - Bride and groom kissing outdoors
View Photo #20 - Dining table
View Photo #21 - Oysters
View Photo #22 - Wedding cake
View Photo #23 - Wedding table setting
View Photo #24 - Hors d'oeuvres
View Photo #25 - Hors d'oeuvres
View Photo #26 - Wedding ring
View Photo #27 - Hors d'oeuvres
View Photo #28 - Outdoor event
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Capacity (reception):
250 guests with dancing
Capacity (dinner):
300 guests for a sit-down dinner
Max. affairs (at same time):
Separate reception room:
Outdoor reception area:
Outdoor cocktail area:
Dance floor:
Valet parking:
Coat check:
Air conditioned:
Off premise available:
In-house party planner:
Live music allowed:
DJ allowed:
AV equipment available:
Guest accommodations:
Kosher available:
Upon Request
Kitchen on premises:
Must use in-house caterer:
Must use in-house liquor:
Bridal changing room:


Price range per person:
Starting at $149
Room fee:
No Room or Site Fee
Advanced booking required:
Advanced deposit required:
Seasonal pricing flexibility:
Room availability (hours):
All Hours


  • Russ, Kate, and The Entire Vineyards Staff, Thank you so much for making our wedding so perfect. Your passion and professionalism were amazing throughout the entire process. Our family and friends are still raving about the service and the entire venue. Love, Nicole and Travis
    Nicole & Travis

  • My husband and I got married on July 3, 2017. As corny as it might sound, our weeding was a dream. Since the day we looked up The Vineyards and found them on The Knot, I knew it was exactly what we were looking for. All of the staff were simply amazing and helpful. Kate was also a pleasure to work with, had some really great ideas, and was super accommodating. She also made it a priority to make sure I had enough vegetation food to eat! The food was AMAZING, all of our guests loved it, as well as the grounds. Russ our Maitre ’D was so thoughtful and helpful. Sarah was a GREAT bridal attendant, she even helped clean up my dress from bug guts and dirt right before the ceremony. We couldn’t have asked for a better team to work with to facilitate our wedding day. It is also important to note that I was a little nervous when I found out we the venue was under new ownership half way to our wedding day, but I couldn’t be more grateful, and they honored everything in our contract. Lastly, the renovations to the place are amazing. We loved the venue as it was when we booked it over a year ago, but the changes they made are just simply even more beautiful. Thank you for the best wedding ever, we wish we could do it all over again! - Michelle & Daniel - July 3, 2017
    Michelle & Daniel

  • If I could give these guys more than 5 stars, I would. My wedding day was absolutely perfect and I couldn't imagine our day at any other venue. The day I saw the vineyards I knew it was our place. Halfway through our planning process, they were bought by Lessing's and I wasn't sure what was going to happen. However, Russ and Kate made the switchover so smooth and all the cosmetic changes were for the better. Russ was our Maitre 'D and was an absolute pleasure to work with. He made sure the bride and groom, parents, and bridal party had drinks at all times throughout the photos and the reception and was on top of every little detail. Sarah was our bridal attendant and was an absolute doll. She bustled me up in less than 5 minutes and was there for whatever we needed. My favorite thing was how they wrote a little note on my cake box when we picked it up the next day and even signed one of our Jenga pieces for our guest book! Lessing's and this awesome team really know how to make everything perfect. My favorite story of the night is when an elderly guest complained that the music was too loud and threatened to unplug the DJ booth and Russ said "see that girl over there having a fantastic time on the dance floor? I'm here for her." Thanks Russ, Kate, Sarah, and everyone else at The Vineyards for the best night of my life! - Alyssa & Michael - June 30, 2017
    Alyssa & Michael

  • We can't thank Kate and Russ enough for making our day perfect. The venue was amazing and completely updated to really give us that North Fork vineyard vibe. Our guests were pampered with a delicious menu and great drinks. If you have that opportunity to book this venue, please do. We cannot imagine our day anywhere else. Thank you Russ and Kate for everything that you did on that day. - Jamie & Eric - July 8, 2017
    Jamie & Eric

  • My husband and I just got married at The Vineyards on August 4th and we really want to thank them for hosting the best day of our lives! We fell in love with the venue last March and were a little nervous about the change in management. However when we went to see the renovations we were absolutely blown away! From the entrance, to the reception space, all the way to the bridal suite and outdoor patio, the entire venue has an airy, rustic elegance, and is absolutely stunning and romantic. We also met Kate, the sales manager, and Russ, at that time. They were both so accomodating and answered any questions that came up along the way. Their organization and personal experience really put our minds at ease. On the day of the wedding, everything went smoothly. The weather was gorgeous so we were able to have the ceremony outside, showcasing the breathtaking views and beautiful gardens. I couldn't get over how many places there were to take pictures! From the delicious food, to the attentive and friendly staff, I really could not come up with one complaint about the day. Our guests were so impressed with the venue and kept commenting on what a unique and beautiful choice it was. I'm so happy that we chose The Vineyards for our wedding and I would recommend them for any couple looking for a romantic and stunning event! - Ashley & Kevin - August 4, 2017
    Ashley & Kevin

  • I just have to say that Kate and Russ did an amazing job on our wedding day!! Everyone complimented on the food and the venue !! They can't stop talking about how much food was served at cocktail hour! Also, I would like to thank Kate for helping me . She realized my theme was silver and rhinestones that she rented silver chairs for our wedding ! That truly made the my day when i walked in the reception, It was beautiful! Russ was so helpful and so kind . He made the night run smoothly!! Thank you again! I highly recommend this venue to anyone who is getting married!! You will be in good hands:) My wedding is a dream come true at the Vineyards !! - Shelly & Michael - August 25, 2017
    Shelly & Michael

  • The Vineyards made our wedding dreams come true! By far the greatest night of our lives! Everything was absolutely perfect in every way. The staff, the service, the food was above and beyond. Kate made planning our day so easy. Thank you very much again! - Kati & Anthony
    Kati & Anthony

  • The wedding was everything I imagined, plus! The grounds are captivating and amazing for pictures. Indoors everything was remodeled and updated. The food!!! Cocktail hour was beautiful and endless, the main courses delicious and filling, dessert (in addition to the cake we ordered) which was a gelato station was a hit! The staff was very helpful and patient with us from the moment we walked in and chose the site as our venue to the day after the wedding when we went to pick up all the wedding stuff. If I could do it all over again, I would choose The Vineyards and just relive the night. Special thank you to Kate, Russ, and Rich! - Jessica & Ricardo - August 20, 2017
    Jessica & Ricardo

  • This venue was amazing. From start to finish we had the perfect day. We got married on site on September 15th. It's been one week today and people are still raving about the day saying it probably was the best wedding they have ever been to. Walking in the Vineyard to take pictures was a dream to us. Everyone kept saying how amazing the food was from cocktail hour to dinner. Our bridal attendant helped us all day and made sure we had what we needed. This venue has the ultimate rustic/Vineyard feel. I felt like a princess and would recommend anyone to come and have their wedding here. Thank you Kate for answering all our questions and help make our dream wedding. - Marguerite & Thomas - September 15, 2017
    Marguerite & Thomas

  • From the moment we saw The Vineyards we fell in love. It was exactly what we wanted, picturesque, one event at a time, big enough, it was perfect! We originally booked before Lessings took over and after the initial shock, they did not let us down. The renovations Lessings made only improved The Vineyard and made it more beautiful for our day. Kate answered all of my questions and emails in a timely manner and made us feel at ease from the minute she took over. The food was delicious, the ceremony space is gorgeous, the staff made the day run smoothly and our pictures could not be more beautiful in the vineyards. I wouldn't have changed anything about our day. - Jessica & Brian
    Jessica & Brian

  • From the time we booked our wedding at the Vineyards, to the day of our wedding, the process was flawless. We fell in love with the venue the day we sat down to sign our contract. A few months prior to our wedding, we found out the Vineyards was under new ownership and after seeing the renovations and meeting with the new staff, we loved it even more. Russ and Kate were phenomenal and so professional. They made our night run so incredible smooth. Our bridal attendant Jamie was excellent, she was on top of everything and I didn’t even have to think that night. Our guests raved about the food and the unbelievable service. We had the wedding of our dreams and our guests had the time of their lives. We can’t thank you enough! - Danielle & William - September 24, 2017
    Danielle & William

  • My husband and I were looking for a classy, yet rustic type of place, when we booked our venue. From the moment we walked into the Vineyards, we fell in love. We booked it in Oct/Nov 2015, before Lessings took over. We were a little nervous about the take over, but they did not dissapoint...everything was fantastic, and we both loved the venue even more. Kate, the sales director who was dealing with our wedding answered all of our questions promptly, and bent over backwards to make sure everything worked out. The staff were all so nice, and very attentive to each of us! All of our guests LOVED the food including all of cocktail hour, dinner, and dessert/viennese hour! Everything was great, we would recommend this venue to everyone... - Jessica & Kevin - October 8, 2017
    Jessica & Kevin

  • When I dreamt of my wedding I always pictured it being on a vineyard. I never wanted to get married in a traditional catering hall. After visiting several sites, The Vineyards was our best option by far because it offered the best of both worlds with being on a vineyard, as well as being a catering hall. While planning my wedding, The Vineyards went through major changes having being bought out by Lessing's and completely remodeled. To most brides, they may have been nervous about all the changes, but I couldn't have been more happy. The new look made all of the details of my wedding shine even more and created the perfect romantic, fall wedding I wanted. Kate and Russ were great to work with, every need, concern, or question I had got attended to very quickly and helped make planning my wedding even easier. One of my biggest concerns having come from a big Italian family, was to have good food. My father who is one of the biggest food critics prides himself on giving friends and family quality and delicious foods. Therefore, good food was a MUST. I can now say my father and guests are still raving about how good the food was which made my satisfaction with The Vineyards even higher. Kate and Russ offered me so many options and custom ideas that helped in delivering my best day ever. I have been with my husband for over 10 years and now finally married, therefore, this was a monumental event in our friends and families lives so we had to make it a big event to celebrate all of our years together and pick a place that would give everyone just that. My husband and I couldn't be happier to have The Vineyards as part of our forever memories of our beautiful wedding. - Lucianne & Kenny - September 9, 2017
    Lucianne & Kenny

  • BEST wedding venue ever. I wish there were 10 stars to give. I fell in love with this venue as soon as I saw it. We booked The Vineyards prior to it being a Lessing’s property, when I thought it couldn't get any better, Lessing’s made improvements that were beyond beautiful. The staff the Vineyards is EXTRAORDINARY. They couldn't be more accommodating, classy and genuine. They give wedding professionalism a whole new meaning. The food was absolutely delicious! All my guest especially raved about the cocktail hour 😊. The beautiful vineyard, rustic patio & Tuscan ballroom coupled with the excellent food and service will make your wedding day a dream come true. We had the most perfect day! - Meghan & Ralph - November 3, 2017
    Meghan & Ralph

  • I want to give them 50 stars. We booked this place on short notice after our Turks an Caicos wedding in November was cancelled. We drove up to visit and met Kate and Russ and we ended up booking that day. They truly made our wedding everything I could have dreamed of. The place was beautifully decorated for the holidays so I didn't have to bring any decorations of my own . The bridal suite BLEW ME AWAY-I am so upset I didn't arrive earlier (as Kate suggested). I was able to drop off my flowers and favors the night before which was a big help. The day of Kate helped me steam my dress (she's a professional), Jamie and Nancy were my "right hand women" that day and they did SUCH a great job of keeping things organized, making sure I was okay and eating-they were truly fantastic. Russ also did a great job of just overseeing the operations that night and making sure everything was running smoothly. I really can't say enough nice things about the staff there. The food was AMAZING. Literally all of my guests went out of their way to tell us how much they enjoyed the food. They said they would have been happy with the cocktail hour alone. My husband and I also thought the food was incredible. Oh, they also came around at dinner and offered SECONDS on the entrees-when does that ever happen?! We chose the Gelato bar for dessert-another hit with the guests. We had a candy buffet for our favors and I didn't even have to worry about setting it up because Nancy took care of it for me. At the end of the night, Nancy and Jamie even packed everything up for us. I seriously wish we were having our wedding again this weekend just to go back and re-live the amazing experience we had this past weekend. It was the best day/night of my life and I can't thank the staff at the Vineyards at Aquebogue enough for making that possible. - Nicole & Giuseppe - December 9, 2017
    Nicole & Giuseppe

  • The Vineyards blew away my expectations. We first looked at The Vineyards in October 2015 and fell in love with the location and the fact that it was a catering hall on a vineyard (a great compromise if you are looking for a beautiful location but not the hassle of bringing in everything yourself). The venue looked fine when we saw it in October of 2015, but Lessings came in and finished their updates just in time for our June 2 wedding. They did an amazing job with the decor, paint, furniture, etc. Kate who is the Sales Director now for the venue was wonderful. She answered every question I had was so responsive and helpful. She is so organized and detailed which made the final process stress free. On the day of our wedding, Russ and Kate were there to greet my husband and I to ensure everything was running smoothly. At one point, red wine had spilled on my mom's dress and Russ was right there with seltzer and a cloth on his hands and knees scrubbing it out. The food, the drinks, the service, the grounds, the location all 5 stars. Everyone could not get over how beautiful the outdoor patio/cocktail hour room looked. Being the only wedding there made a huge difference as all the attention was focused on us and our guests. We had the best day of our lives and a lot of it was thanks to The Vineyards. - Christan & Ryan - June 2, 2017
    Christan & Ryan



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